Pamper Her

PAMPER
(pām'per)


to treat with extreme or excessive care and attention!

All women love to be pampered. Some may not be used to it, or not even know what they like, but I promise you all women will love it. A gift certificate to the spa is not the same. Here's why - When you pamper a woman you are taking care of her, you are making her feel good, and by you doing the pampering you are showing your love.

So how should you pamper her? Every woman likes different things more than others, so don't be afraid to ask her ahead of time.
You see the most sensitive part of a women is not beneath the waist. It's above the neck.
That's right you guess it. It is her mind.


Here are some suggestions to get you started.

You could make a bubble bath for two complete with candles and champagne. If she's not a bath girl, you might consider buying a small bottle of massage oil, have her get into her bath robe and give her a back massage. If she's a woman that spends her days on her feet, you may want to give her a pedicure.

A women's mind seem to run nonstop. Your life is in constant motions and your to-do lists are filled with notes about your other to-do lists! It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking about the future or the past, forgetting to be alive in the moment. It’s easy to let life slip you by, when the moment in front of us melts into the past.


A women face stresses every day and often spend too much time looking after the needs of others while neglecting to pamper herself. Learning to relax is vital for good health. Now, what can you do to relax and rejuvenate your minds.

Soaking in an aromatherapy bath will do the trick. There are all kinds of bath products available for you to pamper yourself with. If you enjoy taking a bath, there are bath salts, bath bubbles, Bath Bombs, which come in variety of scents. Just make sure they have all natural ingredients and sulfate-free.
Essential Spa blend contains eucalyptus to invigorate and detoxify; lavender to calm, soothe and
balance; and rosemary to refresh and energize.

Soak away your stress with the bath product of your choice - turn out your bright bathroom light, light a candle or two, put your head on a bath pillow and you are good to go. Close your eyes and enjoy the wonderful scent.(But don’t fall a sleep in the tub!)

If you are not so much a bath person, then turn your shower into a relaxation zone. If you have a high pressure, massage shower head, perfect! If you don’t, I highly recommend you consider buying one. A good quality shower head can easily be found at a reasonable price. You can even get one as a gift in addition to a bath and body gift set that you may be considering buying for someone.

For a shower person, make sure you use a good shower gel that's all natural, and sulfate-free.
You can pamper yourself. You can take just a few minutes each day to appreciate and love yourself.

The key is to listen to her, find out what she really likes, and plan an evening that caters to her.