Love Quiz & Relationship Test

Love Quiz & Relationship Test

Please answer the love quiz questions as honestly as you can, based on what you really feel is characteristic of your relationship.



Throughout the love test/questionnaire, the blanks are for you to mentally insert the name of your spouse or significant other (if you are not yet married).



Score the following questions on the love quiz on a scale of 1 to 9. One means not at all. Five means moderately. Nine means extremely. Be sure to score each question on the quiz/test as honestly as you can, based on what you feel is characteristic of your relationship.

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not at all............................moderately.........................extremely so







1. I share deeply personal information about myself with ______.

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2. I find myself thinking about ______ during the day.

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3. Because of my commitment to ______, I would not let others come between us.

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4. I receive considerable emotional support from ______.

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5. My relationship with ______ is very romantic.

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6. I expect my love for ______ to last for the rest of my life.

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7. I communicate well with ______.

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8. I cannot imagine another person making me as happy as ______ does.

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9. I will always feel a strong responsibility for ______.

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10. I feel that I can really trust ______.

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11. My relationship with ______ is very passionate.

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12. I plan to continue my relationship with ______.

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13. I feel that ______ really understands me.

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14. I would rather be with ______ than anyone else.

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15. I have confidence in the stability of my relationship with ______.

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Your total score:



Your average Intimacy Score is ____. (The average of the scores you gave to questions 1, 4, 7, 10, and 13).



Your Average Passion Score is ____ . (The average of the scores you gave to questions 2, 5, 8, 11, and 14)



Your Average Commitment Score is ____. (The average of the scores you gave to questions 3, 6, 9, 12, and 15).

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The Master The Method The Man The Marriage

The Master

Gen 1:1 Orgin of all things is God Before there was a you there was a God Our pattern,example, must center of marriage Attributes of: God is omniscient ,-knows all,omnipotent-all powerful,omnipresent-everywhere just, immuttable holy, merciful,just,faithful

The Method

God is the author of marriage (a couple joined for life in a special spiritual and physical relationship). God said, "it is not good that the man should be alone…" (Gen. 2: 18). It is a common fact that man is a social being. His life is enhanced and increased by having a proper companion. God then said, "…I will make an help meet for him." The Hebrew word translated "help meet" suggests a counter-part. Some versions have the footnote, "helper comparable to him." She is the help meet, not the help mat, so don't walk on her.

God made woman for man. It has been remarked that God made Eve, not Steve for Adam. The woman was created for man! (Gen. 2: 18-22, 23). The apostle Paul later wrote, "Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man" (I Cor. 11: 9). "…Man is not of the woman," he further argues to illustrate man's headship, "but the woman of the man" (vs. 8). Man is in "the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man" (vs. 7). Since God made woman for man, she is ideally suited both emotionally, anatomically, and psychologically to meet the needs of man - all so called women's movements to the contrary notwithstanding.Men are not from mars/women are not from venus---men are from God,women are from man

Gen 2:21-25 vs 21.from rib--my rib (wife) only fit in my body vs 22. That's why cheating with someone else wife(rib) never work. She don't fit in your life(body). He made woman-made -hebrew- built. No wonder men refer to women as been built.He made man/but the woman he took time and skillfully built her.Uhmm! That why we say women are beautiful and not men.

The exclusivity of marriage. "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother…," God says regarding the priority of marriage (Gen. 2: 24). A son/parent relationship is wonderful and demanding, but the marriage relationship is more demanding! A man leave home-packing simsonite/suitcase but not the mind. He leaves physicaly but not mentally. Must Leave in order to cleave. (cleave- to stick like glue) Marriage, as ordained by God, involves one man and one woman. Eve, not multiple women, was made for Adam (Gen. 2). "They twain (two, dm) shall be one flesh," Jesus later said (Matt. 19: 5). The play and emphasis is on the numerical "two" and "one." Marriage is monogamous and God was not pleased with polygamy, practiced subsequent to Genesis 2).Most men have many wives-they change their names to Miss. ESPN, Miss. NBA, Miss. NFL, Miss. SUV,and that bold, enticing women name Miss. Internet Chat Room. The other women could be right in the house. Remember Hagar was in the house with Abraham.

What constitutes marriage which is joined by God. Not all marriages are joined by God. Many, even of my brethren, equate marriage and bond. Joined together but not married However, in some cases, one can be married to one and bound to another (Rom. 7: 3). Marriage does not necessarily imply there is a bond, in other words. Two eligible people must have the intent of the marriage commitment. The betrothment (what we loosely call "engagement") of the Hebrew scriptures was indicative of such an intent (Ex. 22: 16). Marriage among the Jews was prearranged by parents - such declared intent.

The Bible speaks of God being "witness between thee and the wife of thy youth." Also, "…the wife of thy covenant" (Mal. 2: 14). One commentator wrote regarding Bible marriages: "The actual marriage seems to have been accompanied by certain solemn promises and blessings (The Pulpit Commentary, vol. 14, on Malachi 2: 14). The totality of the teaching of the Bible shows what we call the "exchanging of vows." I stress this facet of marriage to say there is a manifest difference between marriage and just living together in fornication. The purpose of marriage. The ideal marriage is both physical and spiritual. "…To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and every woman have her own husband," the Bible says (I Cor. 7: 2). The conjugal aspects of marriage are clearly and unashamedly taught (I Cor. 7: 3-6, Heb. 13: 4).

Marriage is also for the producing and education of children (Gen. 1: 28). Paul wrote of the woman, "notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety" (I Tim. 2: 15).

Many are conversant with the physical considerations of marriage - the conjugal, children, etc. - but not enough are aware of the spiritual. The biblically ideal marriage involves an acknowledgment of God and his word at the beginning and throughout the marriage. Men and women entering marriage should be as compatible as possible. Moreover, spiritual compatibility should be a requisite. In short, both should be Christians (I Pet. 3: 7, see also Eph. 5: 22-33). Many conflicts and problems occur because neither or just one is a Christian (Acts 26: 28). The expression "one flesh" I am convinced refers to more than the sexual. While they remain two entities, they unite in purpose. The spiritual is also seen concerning the nurturing of children. Children are to be brought "up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Eph. 6: 4). Children are also to "obey your parents in the Lord…" (vs. 1).

Headship in marriage. All relationships must have structure in order to properly function, marriage is no exception. The truth stated in the Bible is the husband is the head, the wife is to be in subjection, and the children are to obey their parents in the Lord (Eph. 5: 22-6: 4 ,1Cor 11:3). The too common American family is in direct opposition to God's teaching regarding marriage. Marriage is not a democracy with all ruling, including the children! Alas, many men lack leadership abilities. They are growing up in homes where biblical headship is not practiced - even members of the Lord's church. More and more preachers and elders (role models) do not rule their own houses (I Tim. 3: 4, 5, Tit. 1: 6). In the case of elders, some local churches have become mutually ruled! (See Hebrews 13: 17.)

The longevity of marriage. God ordained marriage is manifestly permanent (Gen. 1, 2). In alluding to and reinstating the original marriage law, Jesus said: "…what therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder" (Matt. 19: 6). "For the woman which hath a husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth…," Paul wrote (Rom. 7: 2). The only exception or contingency to the continuance of the marriage bond, other than death, is adultery. The innocent mate may elect to sever the marriage bond (his tie) based on the fornication of their mate (Matt. 5: 32, 19: 9). It is becoming more and more uncommon to witness forty and fifty wedding anniversaries. How sad.

Beloved, God ordained marriage, when obeyed, will work and will result in one of the most fulfilling human relationships known to man. Such a marriage can also spiritually enhance both the husband and the wife and bestow on them blessings which can not otherwise by enjoyed.

How Do You Spell Love To A Women?

Do you know how to spell love to a women?

Getting up on Monday morning to go work. Well it's not a major
health problem, but headaches and heart attacks happens on
Monday morning by people who hate going to a J.O.B.

**********************Just Over Broke**********************

Work plays a powerful role in people's lives and exerts an
important influence on their well-being. Since the 1960s, paid
work has occupied an increasing proportion of most people's
lives. Although employment can be an exciting challenge for many
individuals, it can also be a tremendous source of stress.
Consequently, as work makes more and more demands on time and
energy, individuals are increasingly exposed to both the
positive and negative aspects of employment. The relationship
between work and mental and physical health may also contribute
to career adjustment as well as to the productivity.

Once upon a time, you spent $25,000 to $100,000 and went to
college to learn and to be trained on how to be employed. Then
you signed on the dotted line, slung the chain with your ID card
pinched to it around your neck, your new employer trained you,
nurtured you, paid for your car and your babies being born and
they then showed you a ladder leaning up
against the wall and shouted at you, "go climb!"

Circa 1953 to 1977

As long as you didn't drop the ball and make too many mistakes,
you were safe and you could retire in glory. You didn't have to
worry about your career and the notion of having numerous
transitional career changes, back then---would have sounded like
a bad joke.
But again, this was the last century and over twenty-five years
ago. Your father remembers those old days.
Ask Your Parents About This
Back in the day, the company would take care of you, justice
and hard work would prevail and loyalty----going both
ways---were the highest of corporate values.
Think about this. In this day and time you spend $100,000 for
college only to get a job paying $45,000.

*********************First of The Month*********************

How often do you find yourself feeling as though everyday is the
first of the month.
Seem like you can never get ahead. Even your bills got bills.
For some people caller ID is a gift from God. Phone
ring....don't answer, it's a bill collector.

*****************Your Home Away From Home****************

Ok, you know you got to make more money. More money, less
stress, happier home.

How many hours though? 60-70-80 or more. Are you spending more
time at work than home. Do you know more about your co-worker
life than your wife's?
Your choice of work DICTATES your lifestyle:
WHERE you work dictates how long your commute is.
Where you work dictates how much time you give your kids
WHERE you work dictates, are you tolerated or celebrated?
Where you work dictates much of your self-esteem.

How Do you spell love to a women?

TIME

Thats right, Time, you have to spend time with her.

Work smart not hard is the old saying. It's still true. Right
now you trade your time for money. Why not do something one time
and get paid again and again?

Residual income (also called passive, or recurring income) is
income that continues to be generated after the initial effort
has been expended. Compare this to what most people focus on
earning: linear income, which is "one-shot" compensation or
payment in the form of a fee, wage, commission or salary.

Linear income is directly proportional to the number of hours
invested in it (40 hrs. of pay for 40 hrs. of work), but one of
the great advantages of residual income is that once things are
set in motion, you continue making money from your initial
efforts, while gaining time to devote to other things... such as
generating more streams of residual income!

There are a variety of ways residual income can be earned.
Following are some examples.

1) Transfer the rights to a book you wrote, a software program
you created, a gadget you invented, or a song you recorded, to a
company that agrees to pay you a percentage of each copy of your
work sold in the future.

2) Become an actor and draw residual income from each of your
movies, TV shows, or commercials, each time they run.

3) Let an oil company drill a well on your property in exchange
for a percentage of the revenue.

4) Purchase an office building or other real estate that earns
you recurring income through lease or rental payments.

The above ways of earning residual income generally aren't that
easy to implement. Following is a more attainable way for the
average person:

5) Join associate programs.


Call them what you will: referral, reseller, affiliate, bounty
or associate programs, they are very popular on the Internet.
Some of them offer similar opportunities for earning residual
income. Companies arrange such programs to compensate reps,
resellers, dealers, associates, affiliates (or whatever the
designation used) over and over again for promoting their
products and services.

Here's one recommend...
it's a no brainer

You can find it here

What A Women Really Want In A Man

1. Women want a man to be confident!
Confidence is the number one quality women look for. Don't be wimpy. Don't apologize for everything. Be real. Be you.

2. Women go nuts over a man who will go the extra mile.

For example, he opens the door for her, he walks on the right side of the street, he helps her shop. I'm talking about being a GENTLEMAN! If she is cold, offer her your jacket. If she is in trouble, protect her. If there is danger, put your arm around her. Be a real man.

3. A sense of humor.

Women love a man who can make her laugh. If you are dull, you are boring. If you make a woman laugh, you're halfway home. Take a chance, be real, but be funny.

4. Women want a man to listen to them (yes, even to the gripes and details of all the craziness) and not necessarily give advice.

Many women love to complain about their problems; however, they complain not to receive advice, but merely to sound off. I know it's hard to nod and be supportive, because you want to watch ESPN or do something that to you may seem more exciting, but the fact is, your woman will go to the ends of the earth to love you when you truly listen to them and acknowledge their needs. You need to understand that women need to VENT. Allow her this, and she'll allow you in. Nod. Get involved and provide active listening feedback. Be truly interested in what she is saying without worrying about what you're going to say next. Then, watch what happens as your woman opens up to you more.

Women want men to listen to them, because they have a need to be heard. And, women want their man to express his feelings and trust her with his intimate side. Real listening, with real intimacy, is rare. Real listening is suspending thinking about what to say and being deeply engaged in what she is talking about. Listening requires actively paying attention -- shutting off the chatter mind.

5. Women want to be treated like they are the sexiest woman on the planet and that no other woman compares. Talking about your ex-girlfriends is not going to score big points with your new woman. Treating her like she's the ONLY one will make her smile for quite a while.

6. Women want to know you will be faithful.

Don't tell a woman how you cheated on your ex. It won't make her think you are wise, loyal, or trustworthy. I'm not saying to lie to her -- just don't go there. Don't cheat on your woman. She will not think you are a better man for doing this. Just like you want think you are the only man she's ever loved, well, that's the thing she wants, too. The key to faithfulness comes from your own inner character. Be a man of character and you will reap a relationship built upon trust. You gain respect through consistent committed action. Respect backed up by love builds trust, trust builds a strong relationship that can stand the tests of life and time.

7. Women SAY they want a sensitive man.
Truth is, if you go around apologizing all the time and crying frequently then a woman will abuse you. Trust me, it is NOT wise to do. This was well exemplified during the beach scene in the movie Bedazzled, where the main character in the film was trying to woo his love interest, his advice had been to "be more sensitive." Well, he went so overboard, was so sensitive, that his love interest ended up walking away with another dude with the assumption that they'd have meaningless conversation and casual sex! Boy was HE surprised! Being overly sensitive is a quick way to get shown the door. It is important to strike a balance. Be strong, be there, yet share your emotions. Speak up and be real. Let them know you care. But don't be a sissy.

8. Women LOVE a man with a plan. Women love men with ambition.
Men who know who they are, what we're doing tonight, and what we're doing with our life. If you don't have a plan, get one. I have a plan (a) and plan (b) ready at all times, so that no matter what, it will appear I'm fairly spontaneous, but reality is I usually know where, when, and how the evening or date could go. In dating, it is extremely important that you have a plan when you ask a woman out. They will judge your sense of confidence by how well you have thought out where you will take her and what you will do together. So, think ahead, have a plan, then work that plan. While you're at it make sure you have an alternative plan, too, in case she doesn't like the first one!

9. Be a true friend.
Let her share her good times and problems with you. Be there, rather than just promising to be there. Consistent committed positive action is a definition of love. How do you show you are a friend? Are you there when it matters most? Are you there for the small stuff, too? And O yeah, go shopping with her.

10. Women want to be loved, despite their flaws, and need to be satisfied mentally, emotionally, and spiritually as much as physically.

Unconditional love would be ideal love. How can you love a woman without judgment, conditions, or rules? How would you like to be loved?

Sexually speaking, women define great sex differently than men, using words like soft candlelight, light touch, then becoming more aggressive as their mood rises to the occasion. A man, on the other hand, instantly rises to the occasion. Women want men to be their lover instead of obsessing over their body to just get sex. Rather than treat women as sex objects, treat them as someone to relate with; in other words, a real person! That means taking your time, showing extra attention, and being tender in ways with her to let her know she is special.

Foreplay don't begin in the bedroom. It starts in the kitchen while she is washing and you're drying.

Lesson up: the most sensitive part of a women is not beneath her waist, but above her neck.

You guess it - her mind.

You caress that mind the rest will fall into place.

Fellows you can't rush brain surgery.

What a women want...

SHE wants a MAN

Pamper Her

PAMPER
(pām'per)


to treat with extreme or excessive care and attention!

All women love to be pampered. Some may not be used to it, or not even know what they like, but I promise you all women will love it. A gift certificate to the spa is not the same. Here's why - When you pamper a woman you are taking care of her, you are making her feel good, and by you doing the pampering you are showing your love.

So how should you pamper her? Every woman likes different things more than others, so don't be afraid to ask her ahead of time.
You see the most sensitive part of a women is not beneath the waist. It's above the neck.
That's right you guess it. It is her mind.


Here are some suggestions to get you started.

You could make a bubble bath for two complete with candles and champagne. If she's not a bath girl, you might consider buying a small bottle of massage oil, have her get into her bath robe and give her a back massage. If she's a woman that spends her days on her feet, you may want to give her a pedicure.

A women's mind seem to run nonstop. Your life is in constant motions and your to-do lists are filled with notes about your other to-do lists! It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking about the future or the past, forgetting to be alive in the moment. It’s easy to let life slip you by, when the moment in front of us melts into the past.


A women face stresses every day and often spend too much time looking after the needs of others while neglecting to pamper herself. Learning to relax is vital for good health. Now, what can you do to relax and rejuvenate your minds.

Soaking in an aromatherapy bath will do the trick. There are all kinds of bath products available for you to pamper yourself with. If you enjoy taking a bath, there are bath salts, bath bubbles, Bath Bombs, which come in variety of scents. Just make sure they have all natural ingredients and sulfate-free.
Essential Spa blend contains eucalyptus to invigorate and detoxify; lavender to calm, soothe and
balance; and rosemary to refresh and energize.

Soak away your stress with the bath product of your choice - turn out your bright bathroom light, light a candle or two, put your head on a bath pillow and you are good to go. Close your eyes and enjoy the wonderful scent.(But don’t fall a sleep in the tub!)

If you are not so much a bath person, then turn your shower into a relaxation zone. If you have a high pressure, massage shower head, perfect! If you don’t, I highly recommend you consider buying one. A good quality shower head can easily be found at a reasonable price. You can even get one as a gift in addition to a bath and body gift set that you may be considering buying for someone.

For a shower person, make sure you use a good shower gel that's all natural, and sulfate-free.
You can pamper yourself. You can take just a few minutes each day to appreciate and love yourself.

The key is to listen to her, find out what she really likes, and plan an evening that caters to her.

Have You Ever Been Pampered By A Man With A Warm Spirit?

Ah, What a Thought, a Feeling.

To know that as a man you spoil, spellbound, impact, impart, saturate, permeate,
amour, woo, and love you women.

Hold the door, slide the chair, zip the dress, massage the feet, rub the back,
listen to her, lay her on satin sheets to hold her (without having sex) they sometimes
like that you know. And anything else your mind can think of.

Let me take you a little deeper into the water...

Buy a dozen roses the big Ah ha
11 red & 1 pink

Call your women from your office at 10 AM and she might call you to her office (bedroom) at 10PM

wink

Have You Ever Been Pampered By A Man With A Warm Spirit?

On your birthday, give HER a cake

Men are not from Mars and Women aren't from Venus
Men are from God and the Women from the man

God took a rib from Adam's side and made Adam a wife.
I don't touch your rib and you don't touch my rib.

Why!

For peeks sake. Your rib (wife) don't fit in my side.
And my rib (wife) don't fit in your side.
No wonder people cheat and get caught.

Have You Ever Been Pampered By A Man With A Warm Spirit?

Yes, yes yes.
I wash the dishes and mop floors and - get this
Wash clothes too

Lesson up.
Foreplay don't begin in the bedroom.

Here's my secret
What do you think is going through her mind when she sees
her man come home from work, come in and get some stick time on the broom.
Wash clothes and do HER so call duties.

Then you tell her sit and relax, I got this baby

I'll tell you what will happen...
she'll never have another headache at night!!!!!

And the all women stood up and said, "Preach Brother"

Have You Ever Been Pampered By A Man With A Warm Spirit?

You better keep what you GOT
Because
You don't what you'll GET

Why wouldn't you do these things

After all

She has given birth to your children
Wash you dirty clothes
Put up with your mess
Cried when you didn't know it
and a laundry list of other stuff.

Have You Ever Been Pampered By A Man With A Warm Spirit?

If you are a women and haven't been treated or pampered like this
then you should give me 10 min. of your life and let me give you the
chance to pamper yourself.

You can pamper yourself.
You can take just a few minutes each day to appreciate and love yourself.
Listen, here's what I want you to do.
Slide over to my place and discover how you can pamper
YOU
Ok Pamper Me

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